Life sucks, I’ve been there – working a dead end job just for the paycheck. But with the tools available through the internet, there’s no excuse to not be great at something anymore. If you can’t be great at your job, why not be great at something you’re truly passionate about? If you love collecting pens, build the greatest resource of pens. Answer the most questions about pens and be the most knowledgeable about pens. This is the first time in history, that you can really be follow your passion and make something of it. Go out and be great!
How MMA influences my entrepreneurial life and why I stopped training (for now)
Watching UFC 117 Silva v. Sonnen was a beautiful example of what I love about the sport and why it influences my entrepreneurial life. Take away all the glitz and showmanship, and you can see in the end it’s always about heart, work ethic, and technique. A little re-cap of the fight: Chael Shonnen was beating Anderson Silva the reining champion for 4 rounds, laying down thunderous punch after punch while in Silva’s guard. Everything Silva had tried was perfectly countered by Sonnen. Silva’s signature fluid playfulness was shredded away Sonnen pin-point strikes and well-timed shots. Silva couldn’t get Sonnen’s rhythm and was frustrated the whole night. Finally in the 5th round of a fight which by my scorecard Sonnen was winning 4-0, there was a opening when Sonnen sat in Silva’s guard with bad posture and one arm trapped, with the other out (a position every beginner Brazilian Jiujitsu trainee recognizes as an opening for a triangle choke). Silva saw the mistake and capitalized, moving quickly to wrap his legs around Sonnen. Sonnen countered with a stand-up and shift, but Silva countered his counter with a shift to an arm-bar, which Sonnen tapped to.
So what did this show and teach me?
1) It’s all about heart. If you’re getting punched in the face for four rounds, you still never give up. It’s the same thing I face everyday as an entrepreneur. I get looks at social gatherings and people asking me when I’ll get a real job. I have people telling me my ideas are stupid. I see other entrepreneurs succeeding while I’m still struggling. I’m constantly getting punched in the face. But you can’t stop, you just need to keep fighting, to keep taking those punches and waiting for your moment.
2) It’s all about work ethic. If you got heart and no work ethic you won’t be around in the 5th round. One of the hardest things in MMA is to keep your cardio up. You just have to keep plugging away at it, always pushing your boundaries and making yourself uncomfortable. I’ll be honest, at times you think you’re going to have a heart attack and pass out, but you know what? You never do. It’s the same thing with entrepreneurship, you gotta keep plugging away making yourself uncomfortable. Personally i’m a very introverted person, but I know in order for this to work, I have to keep getting out there and meeting people. This is also why I stopped training MMA (which i’ll talk about later).
3) It’s all about technique. No matter how tired you are, you better be able to pull a triangle choke out of your ass when you’re exhausted. You know what that shows? Silva’s practiced that move, probably hundreds of thousands of times. It’s one thing to do perfect technique when you’re full of energy, but busting one out when you’re exhausted and have gotten punched in the face 100 times is pretty impressive. You have to constantly learn and hone your craft. If you’re just sitting at home wondering why things aren’t working, then it’s time to start honing your craft. There are about 50 books out on entrepreneurship and dozens of people who write and talk about it. I’m constantly watching Mixergy and TWiSt to learn from other entrepreneurs’ experiences, constantly reading books like Steve Blanks Four Steps Epiphanies or learning about customer behavior through the book Influence, the psychology of persuasion. You have to be learning and honing so you can bust out your triangle choke in the 5th round.
Ok, that sounds awesome and inspirational, so why’d I quit training MMA? #2. It’s all about work ethic. My main goal in life isn’t to be an MMA fighter (altho i’d love to). It’s to be the best entrepreneur out there. Anything detracting from that goal, I decided to cut from my life. MMA was taking about 3 hrs of my life on days that I trained and 1 1/2 hours on days I wasn’t training. I hate losing and getting my ass kicked, so I was constantly reading and studying moves on my off time. It kept me up at night thinking of things I wanted to try on my opponent the next day. I became all consumed by MMA. Paul Graham posted about having a top idea on your mind, and MMA always seemed to be creeping in. I decided that it was time to stop and really take that time to focus on my business instead (besides, as an entrepreneur, MMA was too expensive anyway!).
I hope this inspired some other entrepreneurs who are in the same spot as me!
Farmville Behavioral Psychology Series: Commitment
So for the last two weeks i’ve been studying Farmville from a product standpoint for a new site that i’ll be working on. They use very clever behavioral psychology tricks to get the user mentally and emotionally invested in the game. Once they’ve become invested, they’re pretty much hooked and willing to spend hours building their virtual farms and gathering neighbors who help them farm. I’ll try and cover everything i’ve learned from studying the game mechanics of each phase. However, i’m only a level 5 farmer, but I’ve talked to several people who are at higher levels to understand what other dynamics keep pulling them in. Most of my learnings have been gleamed from reading ‘Influence – The Psychology of Persuasion’ by Robert B.Cialdini. It’s a great read which I think that every entrepreneur should review. It’ll help you understand ways to keep the user on your site and emotionally invested in your product.
The first hook I’ll talk about is commitment. There are studies that show “Once we have made a choice or taken a stand, we will encounter personal and interpersonal pressures to behave consistently with that commitment” (from Influence Ch.3). Farmville’s first use of this technique is a very subtle status bar at the top of the screen (view the png in the browser to see it enlarged)
It’s very subtle, but if you look at the copy, it says you become a dedicated farmer. I find the wording to be very interesting. It’s not that you only become a farmer, but a dedicated one. Psychologically, once you’ve committed to be a dedicated farmer, i’ll bet you’re more likely to continue to build your farm. Once you do complete it, you’ve committed yourself to the game psychologically. The next thing you know you’re probably a level 51 farmer who’s spent hundreds of dollars on gasoline for your tractor.
If you think about it from Zynga’s point of view, they could have easily asked for this information at other points or on another interaction in the game. Instead, they’ve decided to wrap it into the game design, always reminding you to become a dedicated farmer, and always of course entirely voluntary. As covered in the book, there can’t be an excessive reward for the voluntary action that you take. A person is less committed to an idea if there’s monetary compensation, as they believe it’s an ‘out’ for what they’re doing. Instead, if there is a reward, it’s typically a reward that is more or less insignificant in the scenario. In Farmville’s case you’re actually not rewarded anything for completing the status bar.
Practical Use for Product Designers
In any of your products, you need your users to voluntarily commit to be dedicated users. An even stronger commitment would be to share there commitment with their facebook friends and twitter followers. Once they’ve openly committed to becoming a user, the will most likely continue to be a dedicated user since they’ve already committed to doing so.
Silicon Valley v. New York
So there’s been a ton of chatter online about which is the better place to start a tech company, and even a challenge was made. My friends also have been long pressuring me to move to the bay area to kick start my tech career. I’ll break down why I think NY is a great place for me to be:
People in NY have a good bullshit detector – If you aren’t serious about what you’re doing, NYC will eat you up and kick you to the curb. People in New York don’t really have time for bullshit. They want to know what you’re doing and they want you to explain it in 1 sentence. I’m not talking about VC’s or Angel’s either… i’m talking about my friends. I’ll admit at times, I’m a little all-over-the-place because of my ADD and bringing my ideas to my friends forces me to come up with a congruent thought that they can understand.
Small Community – You’d imagine this would be a bad thing, but I’m beginning to think that this is a good thing. I think I have more access to VC’s and Angels in the area because there are a handful around. Granted I haven’t talked to any (yet), but I do see them frequently at Meetups and other various events.
Lets go grab a beer after work – Most people think that Silicon Valley would be a great place to socialize, but from what I can see, it’s not! Most people don’t grab beers after work and only can do things with people who live near each other. My favorite thing about working at my first corporate job was that every thursday we would go get trashed at a bar in the city and I could take a cab home and only worry about where I was going to puke and not about how I was going to actually get home.
Innovative Community not just in tech – New York is a cross section of several industries – fashion, finance, technology, advertising, sports, and media. While I think you definitely will continue to see really hard core technology come out of the Valley, I believe you’ll really start to see more innovative technology (while maybe not being too hard-core tech) come out of these other areas from NY companies – ie. stackoverflow, gilt group, foursquare. While we may not be as techie as the Valley (yet), we are pushing the boundaries when it comes to these other industries.
I can’t get a fucking coffee without driving – Sorry, SV… NY is just way too convenient to get stuff like cofee. If I want a coffee I wake up, walk down the block and get one. In SF I have to get in my car, drive to a local spot. UNACCEPTABLE.
Startup finances can be confusing – What better place to get advice than a city known for finance!
If you can make it here, you can make it anywhere – Doing a startup here is definitely not without its challenges. I’d call them out, but I don’t want to add to the criticisms out there on the net. But if it isn’t a challenge, where would the fun be in doing a startup! In Brazilian Jujitsu, you’re constantly put to the test at the end of every class. People choke you to the point where you’re seeing stars, put you in armlocks that make your arm feel like it’s going to break, put your joints in positions they’re not supposed to go in. But you know what? At end of every class you’re better for it. Your brain tells you, ‘holy shit dave, you can take the pain, you can deal with it, now figure a way out, figure out a counter’. Same thing with this startup stuff, i’ve been at it for 4 years now, while it hasn’t worked out (yet), i’ve learned so much along the way and i’ve been stretched to my boundaries and I haven’t broken yet! Eventually I know i’ll get that triangle choke on an idea. And when I do, you better get ready to tap!
i don't know shit… this is why customer development makes sense
So I can’t sleep….. i’ve been reading about game design for the past two weeks and want to build my application already and am waiting on my designer to get back to me. We’ve been going back and forth about what our application should look like and do and finally what Eric Reis and Steve Blank talk about finally clicked in my brain.
I don’t know shit. It’s not that I literally don’t know shit. It’s just that all I have are assumptions. I assume that my users will want to do this. i assume that my users will want to do that. I really don’t know what they will do in a real world situation. In the game design book ‘Rules of Play’, they talk about getting your game out to game testers as early as possible because you need to figure out what works. If it’s all in your head, then it’s impossible to see whether or not it works. It also doesn’t make sense to just build a game then test it after it’s all built. You need to test the game constantly to test whether or not it’s playable and if people understand what you’re trying to do.
Another way to think about it is this way. If you had to bet your life on whether or not a feature worked, would you? Would you risk your first born on a feature? Probably not. BUT, if I told you that you had the option of testing that feature out compare to the current model to see if it would work, wouldn’t you want to test it first? No one really knows wtf they’re talking about, even entrepreneurs who’ve done it before. They may have some insight, but that insight still needs to be tested and validated.
This is the whole concept of customer development. Don’t wait till the end to get it in front of some customers. Create an assumption, ask people about it, test out the theory. If it sticks, move on and build a prototype to get out in front of ppl. Just keep iterating and testing it front of people as you go. Eventually you’ll get something that makes sense and has a market fit.


